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    Posted: 07 Dec 2011 at 11:12pm
I know alot of people might disagree, but I personally love it (being a Christian I'm pretty much destined to like it.) I saw a really heavy bashing of it on the Doom-mantia forums and it seems like all the commenters there were hating it simply because it appeals to the grey capitalistic mass. And in a way they are right...Christmas these days is nothing but a huge marketing sale. I've lived long enough to know a traditional Christmas feeling, and like pretty much everything else in these dark times the "new" Christmas is all about getting money in this factory we call society. I am one of the few who still loves the traditional holiday feeling (even though the music is done to death.)
 
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Well...as a child I really loved Christmas. The atmosphere, the food, the candy the presents. As an adult the month of December is absolutely killing me. It�s an extremely stressful month with expectations from everyone that I�m struggling to honour. So I guess the Christmas spirit isn�t really doing much for me anymore. In fact I can�t wait until the month of December is over.
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Well, I guess the fact that early Christians commandeered existing pagan and nordic rituals and turned them into a commercial venture strikes me that it has always been that way.

However, my kids have always loved it, as I did.

As an adult its an excellent excuse to get the whole family together that isnt a wedding or a funeral.




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I used to work in a library, and I had a colleague there who celebrated Christmas in the most awesomely anti-social way. He'd go to his mother's place, go to his old room (bringing some food and some beers), and then he's lock the door to the room and watch the old Star Wars Trilogy in its entirety. Now, that's an ideal Christmas!
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I had an unkle (or well my mother�s sister�s boyfriend!. How do you say that in English?) who burned Christmas trees on Christmas Eve and was proud of it. Nice fellow that oneLOL. He also taught my, at the time, young cousins to smoke hash. Again what a nice guyDead.

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Here in Brazil Christmas never was such a holiday, I think people like it bacause they don't need to workWink
My mother is protestant and ever considered Xmas a catholic holiday, so since I was a children I was aware that Santa Claus does not exist at all! But as a children I was expecting the gifts, sure...
Xmas is also a holiday of hipocrisy, 'cause many relatives and people who don't talk to each other in the rest of the year began to smile and hug...Thumbs Down


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I've always loved Christmas.

Originally posted by Colt Colt wrote:

Well, I guess the fact that early Christians commandeered existing pagan and nordic rituals and turned them into a commercial venture strikes me that it has always been that way.
I'm pretty sure early Christians did not turn them into a commercial venture. That happened pretty much the last century and I would suggest that it was probably a move not based on religious motives. 
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I'd probably also hate the extra-commercialization of Christmas but fortunately here where I live it's not a major issue. On the other hand, France is a very secular country so people don't care much about it either, which is why during the holidays I do feel a bit alone and miss my childhood (I'm from Eastern Europe btw). 

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Originally posted by Vic Vic wrote:

I've always loved Christmas.

Originally posted by Colt Colt wrote:

Well, I guess the fact that early Christians commandeered existing pagan and nordic rituals and turned them into a commercial venture strikes me that it has always been that way.
I'm pretty sure early Christians did not turn them into a commercial venture. That happened pretty much the last century and I would suggest that it was probably a move not based on religious motives. 


In pre-Christian Rome, the emperors compelled their most despised citizens to bring offerings and gifts during the Saturnalia (in December) and Kalends (in January).  Later, this ritual expanded to include gift-giving among the general populace.  The Catholic Church gave this custom a Christian flavour by re-rooting it in the supposed gift-giving of Saint Nicholas.

It's been going on for centuries, you need to learn your history Wink
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^ I think Vic's point was about the "commercial venture" not about the tradition of gifts which is indeed universal. 
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I don't care about christmas. Everyone assume that they have to be nicer to eachother for Jesus' birthday. It's all fake, because the rest of the year, everyone's an asshole (or not).
I like all the lights and decorations though, but those songs... Argh, those are annoying.
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Originally posted by harmonium.ro harmonium.ro wrote:

^ I think Vic's point was about the "commercial venture" not about the tradition of gifts which is indeed universal. 


I did understand the point Vic made Alex.

Except my reply is still accurate, the commercial nature of Xmas is not a recent one and it was indeed solely based on religious motives.

But hey, if you want to believe all that stuff, then each to their own Smile
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I like Christmas. It's relaxing being able to just chill with family and friends for a few days.  I even like some of the music (Vince Guaraldi comes to mind, as does a good choir or orchestra).  It's also the one time of year when most people are actually happy to see a big snowfall (if it actually does snow).
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Originally posted by Colt Colt wrote:

Originally posted by harmonium.ro harmonium.ro wrote:

^ I think Vic's point was about the "commercial venture" not about the tradition of gifts which is indeed universal. 


I did understand the point Vic made Alex.

Except my reply is still accurate, the commercial nature of Xmas is not a recent one and it was indeed solely based on religious motives.

But hey, if you want to believe all that stuff, then each to their own Smile

What the Christians did (basically emperor St. Constantine) was take an existing custom and making it a Christian custom. That is history and nobody who knows history can deny that.

I fail to see the "commercial" point you are trying to make. 
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Originally posted by Colt Colt wrote:

Originally posted by harmonium.ro harmonium.ro wrote:

^ I think Vic's point was about the "commercial venture" not about the tradition of gifts which is indeed universal. 


I did understand the point Vic made Alex.

Except my reply is still accurate, the commercial nature of Xmas is not a recent one and it was indeed solely based on religious motives.

But hey, if you want to believe all that stuff, then each to their own Smile


Sure, there's always been a commercial aspect to holidays because gifts and winter-specific products had to be produced and aquired. The point was though that the phenomenon of extreme commercialization is a modern one.

BTW I got to live in a quasi-mediaeval environment - I spent a good part of my childhood in a Romanian village, where people still relied on agriculture done by horse-powered plough and manual hoeing (is this a word?), didn't have hygiene facilities (the "toilet" was a hole in the ground in the back of the house), milked the cow manually and killed and prepared the pig with their own hands, etc. The only sign of the time was electricty; there was no TV though, just a fridge and a radio, which also didn't broadcast any entertainment of the modern kind, just propaganda and old fashioned pop music and traditional folk.

Christmas was something so completely from what can be seen in, for example, US cities... Worlds apart. There was nothing in the village to signify the arrival of the holidays, there wasn't this idea of decorating the house (it generally isn't in Europe, just the shops are decorated), we were many eras behind the idea and facilities for play music on the street; there were no commercials on the TV, ads or customized shops. The only thing was the slight sound of chant - children singing carols in the Eve night. Christmas was basically down to this elements: the religious service at church; the Christmas tree, on which the only thing bought from the city was the tinsel, all the rest was natural (baked apples for globes, actual candels for lighting, cookies). We didn't get gifts, but we sang carols and got wonderful cakes and cookies, and sometimes money. It was the most extravagant time of the year cooking wise, and the main activity during the three days was families visiting each other to enjoy all the prepared goodies. Singing carols in front of the door was mandatory and the best part actually. Those were the days...

In the city there was already a difference, we got gifts there and the notion of "Santa Claus" (Moș Crăciun) was stronger; at the country people were more religious and Christmas was mainly about the birth of Christ. No difference on the streets though.


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Originally posted by Vic Vic wrote:

Originally posted by Colt Colt wrote:

Originally posted by harmonium.ro harmonium.ro wrote:

^ I think Vic's point was about the "commercial venture" not about the tradition of gifts which is indeed universal. 


I did understand the point Vic made Alex.

Except my reply is still accurate, the commercial nature of Xmas is not a recent one and it was indeed solely based on religious motives.

But hey, if you want to believe all that stuff, then each to their own Smile

What the Christians did (basically emperor St. Constantine) was take an existing custom and making it a Christian custom. That is history and nobody who knows history can deny that.

I fail to see the "commercial" point you are trying to make. 


Oh but I can and will!

Personally, I wouldn't call human sacrifice, widespread intoxication, going from house to house while singing naked, rape and other sexual license as adopting a custom rather than a ritual as I quoted.

The "custom" was called Saturnalia. The christians attempted to convert pagans to their faith
by promising them that they could continue to celebrate Saturnalia as Christians, except there was nothing christian about it.

So what did they do, they said that Jesus was born on the 25th December!! LOL

Christmas has alway been about sexual indulgence, singing naked house to house (carol singing its called these days), drinking excessively (thats not changed either) and guess what giving presents.

Not what you expect from christians and the religion eh?

Now why was it commercial. I guess you would believe that each individual made their own gifts from the materials they already owned. No, of course not, they had to go out and buy them. Just like today. The only difference is perception. Today is all about TV, Cinema etc.  In those days people spent all their time in the villages and towns where the shop proprietors did exactly what they do today except by advertising at the base of their respective establishments.

I also used to believe what I was told, until I wised up and researched it myself. As you can tell, I am now an atheist.

No offence intended Vic, we all have a right to an opinion. Thumbs Up


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Originally posted by harmonium.ro harmonium.ro wrote:

Originally posted by Colt Colt wrote:

Originally posted by harmonium.ro harmonium.ro wrote:

^ I think Vic's point was about the "commercial venture" not about the tradition of gifts which is indeed universal. 


I did understand the point Vic made Alex.

Except my reply is still accurate, the commercial nature of Xmas is not a recent one and it was indeed solely based on religious motives.

But hey, if you want to believe all that stuff, then each to their own Smile


Sure, there's always been a commercial aspect to holidays because gifts and winter-specific products had to be produced and aquired. The point was though that the phenomenon of extreme commercialization is a modern one.

That I will agree with.

BTW I got to live in a quasi-mediaeval environment - I spent a good part of my childhood in a Romanian village, where people still relied on agriculture done by horse-powered plough and manual hoeing (is this a word?), didn't have hygiene facilities (the "toilet" was a hole in the ground in the back of the house), milked the cow manually and killed and prepared the pig with their own hands, etc. The only sign of the time was electricty; there was no TV though, just a fridge and a radio, which also didn't broadcast any entertainment of the modern kind, just propaganda and old fashioned pop music and traditional folk.

I was born on a farm nearly 50 years ago. What you quote is not much different to the faming community in this country at that time. Hoeing is indeed a word, I have done that plenty of times in my life Tongue

There were no showers, I bathed in a metal bath in front of an open fire.

The toilet was a shed at the bottom of the garden or a pot under your bed if you needed to go during the night.

I saw my first colour TV when I was 12 years old.


Christmas was something so completely from what can be seen in, for example, US cities... Worlds apart. There was nothing in the village to signify the arrival of the holidays, there wasn't this idea of decorating the house (it generally isn't in Europe, just the shops are decorated), we were many eras behind the idea and facilities for play music on the street; there were no commercials on the TV, ads or customized shops. The only thing was the slight sound of chant - children singing carols in the Eve night. Christmas was basically down to this elements: the religious service at church; the Christmas tree, on which the only thing bought from the city was the tinsel, all the rest was natural (baked apples for globes, actual candels for lighting, cookies). We didn't get gifts, but we sang carols and got wonderful cakes and cookies, and sometimes money. It was the most extravagant time of the year cooking wise, and the main activity during the three days was families visiting each other to enjoy all the prepared goodies. Singing carols in front of the door was mandatory and the best part actually. Those were the days...

In the city there was already a difference, we got gifts there and the notion of "Santa Claus" (Moș Crăciun) was stronger; at the country people were more religious and Christmas was mainly about the birth of Christ. No difference on the streets though.

What you talk of, is a cultural difference and a time gap between civilisations catching up. I was forced to visit church (my family were VERY religious) where outside were the local traders selling their wares and given a hymn sheet full of small boxes advertising the local shops and traders. Its just the format that has changed.

There is a marked difference here to between the urban and rural populations.

Oh and Christmas Tree's that other pagan practice the christians nicked to try to recruit them.



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Christmas has alway been about sexual indulgence, singing naked house to house (carol singing its called these days), drinking excessively (thats not changed either) and guess what giving presents.



 
Christmas is so fuckin� metalHeadbanger(now I finally have an excuse to go naked from house to house drunk like hell singing like crazyLOL)
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Originally posted by Colt Colt wrote:



Christmas has alway been about sexual indulgence, singing naked house to house (carol singing its called these days), drinking excessively (thats not changed either) and guess what giving presents.



 
Christmas is so fuckin� metalHeadbanger(now I finally have an excuse to go naked from house to house drunk like hell singing like crazyLOL)
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Originally posted by Colt Colt wrote:

Christmas has alway been about sexual indulgence, singing naked house to house (carol singing its called these days), drinking excessively (thats not changed either) and guess what giving presents.


Not sure where that happened, but I would have liked to try it too. Tongue

I'll agree with your comments in red, and the slight difference between our stories are probably marking the difference between protestant and orthodox culture.


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